After a lengthy discussion about matters of “opinions” (Romans 14:1), Paul gave an admonition to those who were strong in the faith: “Now we who are strong ought to bear the weaknesses of those without strength and not just please ourselves” (Romans 15:1).
This instruction contains a reminder that not everyone has reached the same level of spiritual maturity that we have. Of course, this does not excuse one who refuses to grow and remains in a state of spiritual immaturity. However, growth takes time and, therefore, requires patience from others.
Paul addressed the attitude of self-centeredness among those who were strong. It would be easier and more convenient for them if they did not have to be bothered by their weaker brethren who were continually needing to be taught, encouraged, and corrected. Yet the life of a disciple is to be one of self-denial. We are not here just to “please ourselves.” Instead, we are to “please [our] neighbor for his good, to his edification” (Romans 15:2).
We ought to be reminded of the example of “Christ [who] did not please Himself” (Romans 15:3). Instead, Paul wrote earlier that “while we were still helpless…Christ died” for us (Romans 5:6). If He can bear with our weaknesses, we should be willing to do the same for others.
So bear with the weaknesses of the weak. If others need patience and encouragement to help them grow in the faith, we need to be willing to invest the time and effort to provide this. Whatever we do, it is a small sacrifice compared to the one Christ made for us.